Be a blessing to someone today!

This week in the Catholic Church the reading from Matthew 7:6 reads in part: “Do not give away what is holy to dogs; and do no throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under foot and turn and maul you.”

Sometimes when you try to befriend or help someone – whether it’s offering a solution to a problem, checking on their health, asking about their day – their response may not always be what you are expecting. Some responses may be harsh and seem uncalled for. Negative reactions may cause you to not want to help. Don’t let someone destroy your good spirit. You will quickly learn about those who will fight your kindness and those who will receive your encouragement and good intentions.

As in life, emotions are not black and white, there are gray areas too. Don’t give your all to someone who will attack negatively consistently. You are still capable of cultivating a great attitude of praise, forgiveness and giving even with those who seem to challenge you today. Decide on how best to spend your time when giving from the heart. Be careful to not give up hope on someone so easily, for you may be that person that touches them with one word, one thought, one hug, one smile.

Remember that we are for the most part products of our environment. Therefore, most of our responses are learned behavior. With persistence, grace, respect, love and understanding we can cause positive change. We can work together toward a holier way of living. We may not be able to conquer all, and we are certainly not perfect, but each day we have the opportunity and responsibility to exercise positive change, touch a human life with love, and help others through charitable acts.

Pope John Paul II addressed an International Congress on Care of the Dying, March 17, 1992, however, I think it can be applied to anytime in life, it reads as follows:

“Life is a gift from the Creator to be spent in the services of one’s brothers and sisters. It is to be accepted, respected, and promoted with every means available, and defended from every threat.”

Take time out today to be a blessing to someone, what you will receive in return will cause your heart to overflow with joy! Have a blessed day!